How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Sense of Self and Relationships

From the moment we’re born, our nervous system begins learning one thing above all else — how safe it is to love and be loved. Those early lessons become the foundation of what psychologists call our attachment style — the internal map that guides how we see...

Understanding your conflict patterns: It’s not just about who’s right

Conflict is not simply a straightforward interaction between two people. It’s a complex interplay between different parts of your personality — parts that have formed over time to protect, defend, or help you feel seen and safe. When conflict arises, these parts jump...

From Heartbreak to Hope: How to get over a breakup

Breakups are rarely clean or easy. Whether you saw it coming or it took you by surprise, endings stir up a mix of emotions — sadness, anger, confusion, relief, and everything in between. A breakup doesn’t just end a relationship; it often shatters a future you...
Constantly Online – Is It Changing the Way We Love?

Constantly Online – Is It Changing the Way We Love?

We live in a world where being online isn’t something we dip into occasionally—it’s the backdrop of our daily lives. Our phones ping, screens glow late into the night, and our attention is endlessly pulled between emails, messages, newsfeeds, and notifications. It’s...

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Top 3 communication mistakes couples make

Top 3 communication mistakes couples make

No matter how much love exists in a relationship, communication challenges can still create distance. This becomes especially problematic when it becomes the norm over time. In long-term relationships, it’s easy to fall into a kind of shorthand communication—quick...

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Choosing the right time to work on yourself

Choosing the right time to work on yourself

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I’ll get into a relationship when I’ve figured myself out”? Or maybe someone told you, “You need to work on yourself before you can be with anyone else.” There’s a popular myth in the world of self-development that you have to...

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Discomfort isn’t the enemy—It’s your guide

Discomfort isn’t the enemy—It’s your guide

Most of us go to great lengths to avoid discomfort. We reach for certainty, soothing, or distraction—anything to quiet the unease. But what if discomfort wasn’t a problem to fix, but a message to pay attention to? What if it was less of a threat… and more of a guide?...

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How to reparent yourself: Healing through inner nurturing

How to reparent yourself: Healing through inner nurturing

We all have moments where we react in ways that don’t quite make sense—feeling irrationally anxious, getting triggered by small things, or craving validation more than we’d like to admit. Often, these reactions aren’t just about the present moment. They stem from...

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How people pleasing leads to unhealthy relationships

How people pleasing leads to unhealthy relationships

At first glance, being agreeable, generous, and helpful might seem like the recipe for a great relationship. But when these behaviours come from a place of needing to be liked, avoiding conflict, or meeting everyone else’s needs at the expense of your own—it’s no...

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Could validation be the key to better relationships?

Could validation be the key to better relationships?

Have you ever poured your heart out to someone, only to feel dismissed or unheard? Maybe you’ve shared a frustration, and instead of acknowledgement, you got advice you didn’t ask for. Or perhaps you’ve expressed excitement, only to be met with indifference. Moments...

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Is your relationship right for you?

Is your relationship right for you?

When it comes to relationships, there’s often a moment when you pause and ask yourself: Is this relationship right for me? Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or years into a committed partnership, this question is natural and, in many ways, necessary. It...

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