Understanding yourself in relationships: Meaning making and internal filters

We like to believe that we see the world as it is.  That what we think, feel, and perceive is simply true. But the reality is more complex — and far more interesting. Each of us moves through life wearing invisible lenses. We see, hear, interpret, and respond to...

How to Increase Sexual Intimacy in Your Relationship

Many couples want to increase sexual intimacy in their relationship, but aren’t always sure what that really means or how to go about that. Sex can represent many things — pleasure, reassurance, validation, connection — yet when it feels deeply fulfilling, it is...

Bids for connection: The small moments that build (or break) relationships

Most people think intimacy is built through big conversations, deep disclosures, or dramatic relationship “turning points.” But research tells us something far simpler — and far more hopeful. Connection is built (or eroded) in the smallest moments of everyday life....
Should I stay or leave my relationship?

Should I stay or leave my relationship?

Should I stay or should I leave my relationship - it’s a big question. Most people do not ask this question lightly. It tends to surface after a long period of trying — trying to understand, to communicate better, to be more patient, more forgiving, more hopeful....

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10 practical ways to repair your relationship after conflict

10 practical ways to repair your relationship after conflict

Conflict is inevitable in close relationships. Even the most loving, secure couples experience moments of misunderstanding, disconnection, and emotional pain. What determines the strength of a relationship isn’t the absence of conflict — it’s how well you repair after...

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Why You Get Triggered in Relationships — and How to Stay Calm

Why You Get Triggered in Relationships — and How to Stay Calm

Have you ever looked at your partner during an argument and thought, “It’s like they’re a completely different person”?You’re not imagining it — and chances are, they’ve thought the same about you. In truth, we all have different aspects — or parts — within us....

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How to decide whether to stay in a relationship

How to decide whether to stay in a relationship

Relationships can be so challenging that it’s often hard to know whether to stay or leave. So, how do you decide whether to stay in a relationship? When faced with this decision, the internal conflict can feel overwhelming. Emotional investment pulls you in one...

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What happens when someone is triggered and how to help

What happens when someone is triggered and how to help

Understanding Emotional Triggers Understanding what happens when someone is triggered is essential for managing our own emotions and supporting others. We’ve all experienced moments when a certain situation or comment evokes an intense emotional response, often...

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The four pillars to stop arguments escalating

The four pillars to stop arguments escalating

How do you stop arguments escalating? Arguments are a natural part of any relationship. They arise from misunderstandings, differing perspectives, and unaddressed feelings and needs. Simply by being human we are confronted with these unavoidable conditions. Luckily...

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Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict affects us all, particularly during pivotal life transitions. Considering leaving a job, returning to study, relocating, having children, entering. or leaving a relationship, are all major life events where internal conflict is common.   How to...

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