Is your relationship right for you?

When it comes to relationships, there’s often a moment when you pause and ask yourself: Is this relationship right for me? Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or years into a committed partnership, this question is natural and, in many ways, necessary. It...

A New Year Reflection: Silence, Connection and Purpose

As the festive hum of Christmas fades and the New Year unfolds, many of us are left craving something more than resolutions and parties. For me, the start of the year is a time for deeper reflection—a chance to pause, reset, and realign with what truly matters. For...

Emotional Hijacking: What Happens in Your Brain During Conflict

Conflict with your partner can feel like an emotional storm—intense, overwhelming, and hard to navigate. But beneath the surface of frustration or hurt, there’s a fascinating interplay happening in your brain and body. Understanding this dynamic can help you manage...
Why It Is So Hard to Change

Why It Is So Hard to Change

Change is something we all strive for at some point—whether it’s breaking a bad habit, starting a new routine, or improving how we interact in our relationships. Yet, despite our best intentions, change often feels difficult and elusive. Why is it so hard? The answer...

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What happens when someone is triggered and how to help

What happens when someone is triggered and how to help

Understanding Emotional Triggers Understanding what happens when someone is triggered is essential for managing our own emotions and supporting others. We’ve all experienced moments when a certain situation or comment evokes an intense emotional response, often...

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Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict affects us all, particularly during pivotal life transitions. Considering leaving a job, returning to study, relocating, having children, entering. or leaving a relationship, are all major life events where internal conflict is common.   How to...

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How to work with feelings

How to work with feelings

Your feelings are important data for understanding yourself, your boundaries and how to make good decisions. However, feelings are not facts. They are an individual, internal response to a given situation, which is why feelings vary from person to person. Ideally,...

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Stillness is the key to peace

Stillness is the key to peace

Making time for stillness gives you the ability to feel more centred, grounded and spacious in your life and is a way to create more peace in a world which desperately needs it. To cultivate stillness I regularly practice meditation and go on silent retreats. Silence...

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7 ideas for a more connected and meaningful new year

7 ideas for a more connected and meaningful new year

As the new year unfolds, it offers a fresh start for you to imagine your life anew. A life well lived is one rich with connection, purpose and meaning. Whatever that means to you is up to you. Your ability to live in alignment with your life’s vision is success....

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How to discover your purpose

How to discover your purpose

In a world brimming with possibilities and choices, finding your true purpose can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. One of the things that gives me the most job satisfaction is helping clients to uncover what is most important and meaningful to...

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Most of us are familiar with the term “red flags” and everyone has experienced them somewhere in their relationship history. Red flags are issues that signal problems in relationships which, left unaddressed, will eventually lead to relationship breakdown.  Don’t get caught unaware…

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