Should You Suppress or Vent Emotions? Goldilocks May Have the Answer

Most people have heard the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. While Goldilocks was a rather dubious character, helping herself to what didn’t belong to her, there is something valuable in her quest for the "just right." In her own entitled way, Goldilocks showed...

Is there any such thing as a perfect relationship?

Perfection in relationships: Myth or reality? Many of us have been raised on the idea of perfect relationships—romanticised by fairy tales, idealised by the media, and perhaps even expected by those around us. A quick scroll of your socials will show countless selfies...

What happens when someone is triggered and how to help

Understanding Emotional Triggers Understanding what happens when someone is triggered is essential for managing our own emotions and supporting others. We’ve all experienced moments when a certain situation or comment evokes an intense emotional response, often...
Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict and how to resolve it

Internal conflict affects us all, particularly during pivotal life transitions. Considering leaving a job, returning to study, relocating, having children, entering. or leaving a relationship, are all major life events where internal conflict is common.   How to...

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How to work with feelings

How to work with feelings

Your feelings are important data for understanding yourself, your boundaries and how to make good decisions. However, feelings are not facts. They are an individual, internal response to a given situation, which is why feelings vary from person to person. Ideally,...

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Stillness is the key to peace

Stillness is the key to peace

Making time for stillness gives you the ability to feel more centred, grounded and spacious in your life and is a way to create more peace in a world which desperately needs it. To cultivate stillness I regularly practice meditation and go on silent retreats. Silence...

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7 ideas for a more connected and meaningful new year

7 ideas for a more connected and meaningful new year

As the new year unfolds, it offers a fresh start for you to imagine your life anew. A life well lived is one rich with connection, purpose and meaning. Whatever that means to you is up to you. Your ability to live in alignment with your life’s vision is success....

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How to discover your purpose

How to discover your purpose

In a world brimming with possibilities and choices, finding your true purpose can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. One of the things that gives me the most job satisfaction is helping clients to uncover what is most important and meaningful to...

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Navigating end-of-year burnout: A guide to renewal

Navigating end-of-year burnout: A guide to renewal

As the year draws to a close, many of us are finding ourselves grappling with a sense of exhaustion and burnout. The accumulated stress of the year's challenges, both personal and professional, can leave you feeling drained and overwhelmed. This is not an ideal state...

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5 effective ways to manage stress you haven’t tried

5 effective ways to manage stress you haven’t tried

1. Breathe like a Navy Seal Navy Seals have a simple technique to manage stress, stay calm and think more clearly. To understand how such a simple process works you must understand the nervous system. As outlined more fully in our blog, Why you feel stressed, your...

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Why you feel stressed all the time

Why you feel stressed all the time

Stress is an unavoidable and often unwanted consequence of modern living. Every day you are bombarded by stressors from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. You are jolted from sleep by an alarm, fight traffic or pray for your internet and technology...

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