Is your Relationship stuck in a Distancer/Pursuer Pattern?

The distancer/pursuer pattern is a common relationship dynamic where one partner seeks more intimacy and connection (the pursuer), while the other seeks more autonomy and space (the distancer). While it can be evident in everyday interactions, it is more pronounced...

Self-love: The secret sauce of relationship success

In the quest for fulfilling relationships, we often overlook a fundamental truth: the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself. This relationship sets the tone for all others, influencing your interactions, your choices, and your overall...

Love and Limits

Healthy relationships are built on a foundation of love and limits (boundaries). Love provides the warmth, connection, and security that nourish relationships, while boundaries (or limits) establish the respect, autonomy, and individuality necessary for personal...
The 8 types of love

The 8 types of love

What is love? And how many different types of love are there? Love is one of the hardest working words in any dictionary as so much is expected of it. We use the word “love” to describe a multitude of very different experiences. Each of us will experience many “loves”...

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A better way to set goals and resolutions

A better way to set goals and resolutions

Hot on the heels of Christmas and still buzzing with the collective energy the season exudes, Nathan and I jumped in the car and headed off for a 6 day silent meditation retreat, finishing on New Years day.  In the rush to pick up a fellow meditator on time we had a...

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Self-compassion when things are hard

Self-compassion when things are hard

Self-compassion is a radical act which can soothe suffering, build empathy and acceptance, and improve your relationships.  You may consider yourself a compassionate person but do you actively apply compassion to yourself? Most people are unfamiliar  with generating...

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R U OK? –  what to do when U R not OK

R U OK? – what to do when U R not OK

Thursday 9th September is R U OK? Day.  As many of us are in lockdown, I thought it might be a timely reminder to highlight the impacts of lockdown.  Perhaps OK is all you can manage at the moment.  Most people are not thriving in lockdown.  Perhaps you are not OK....

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Could your childhood be causing problems in your adult life?

Could your childhood be causing problems in your adult life?

It took me a long time to figure out my childhood was causing problems in my adult life.  As a child, I was the brunt of frustration and passive aggression, punished for minor mistakes, forgotten, sent away, ignored, and shamed.  Others had it much worse than me, so I...

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What’s the point?  Finding your clarity and purpose

What’s the point? Finding your clarity and purpose

I recently had to make some very important decisions that would have consequences well beyond my immediate concerns, and I was feeling overwhelmed. Stuck between a rock and a hard place I wondered, “What is the point?”.  But while I pushed away what I decided was a...

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Are you pushing so hard you may fall?

Are you pushing so hard you may fall?

Breakfast wisdom.. At breakfast this morning I mentioned to my husband that I wasn’t sure what to write about for this blog post.  He asked me a simple question, “What has been a theme for you and your clients?”  Such wisdom at the breakfast table immediately...

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Are you getting enough Vitamin N?

Are you getting enough Vitamin N?

A few months ago I took some time to feed my soul - to sit by the river and to connect in as many ways as I could with the nature around me.  What I experienced, along with so many other humans over the history of our species, is that being in nature is a powerful way...

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No more lockdown Melbourne! 4 tips to make the most of it

No more lockdown Melbourne! 4 tips to make the most of it

Melbournians, we are on the way back!  No more five kilometres, no more two hours of exercise, no more four walls, no more isolation.  How do you want to emerge from lockdown?  Responses to our increased freedom are varied.  From worry and trepidation to flat out,...

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