Stillness is the key to peace

Making time for stillness gives you the ability to feel more centred, grounded and spacious in your life and is a way to create more peace in a world which desperately needs it. To cultivate stillness I regularly practice meditation and go on silent retreats. Silence...

Is your Relationship stuck in a Distancer/Pursuer Pattern?

The distancer/pursuer pattern is a common relationship dynamic where one partner seeks more intimacy and connection (the pursuer), while the other seeks more autonomy and space (the distancer). While it can be evident in everyday interactions, it is more pronounced...

Self-love: The secret sauce of relationship success

In the quest for fulfilling relationships, we often overlook a fundamental truth: the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself. This relationship sets the tone for all others, influencing your interactions, your choices, and your overall...
How to get more space for you

How to get more space for you

Life will always be busy.  There is no end to our inbox!  And, no one is going to give you permission to stop.  The only person who can do that is you, but first of all we need to shift perspective.  We can sometimes feel like we are the centre of the universe and it...

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How to be more courageous

How to be more courageous

We tend to think of courage as some grand emotion that we need before we can make a start on something...or end something. But what is more courageous on a far greater scale, is something else. It is the most profound courage of all.  It is the courage borne from...

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Hold on or let go?

Hold on or let go?

A funny thing happened as I fought with myself, tensing in such an awkward position. There I was breathing deeply, left leg outstretched behind me, right foot curled uncomfortably underneath my hip, upper body folded to the floor. Pain shot along the length of a...

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6 steps to addressing inner conflict

6 steps to addressing inner conflict

Often when we say "I don't know what I want," it is actually untrue.  Often we know in our heart what we want but are too fearful to admit it because of the potential consequences. We get stuck while our mind goes over several options – again, and again, and again. ...

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red flags

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Most of us are familiar with the term “red flags” and everyone has experienced them somewhere in their relationship history. Red flags are issues that signal problems in relationships which, left unaddressed, will eventually lead to relationship breakdown.  Don’t get caught unaware…

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